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    Posted by: weebecka 16/12/2010 at 23:07
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    airy:
    Nope. It was a pretty average class in the school I'm thinking of. The low attaining SEN kids are generally far more bidabble.
     

    I've worked in two schools where most of the classes were this bad at first.  In one school I was also trying to cope with similar classes on either side of me being covered by supply teachers.  In the other the management infrastructure gave way.

    But they were very different after a while. 

    When you start in a new situation like this it's virtually impossible to sort out the final year students unless you have a lot of back up.

    You've just got to be realistic - they've already defined their personalities at the school and you haven't yet.  

    There's got to be decent, engaging work available for those who are prepared to do it.  As for the rest?  If they do a basic amount of work, just chat to them as human beings and give them positive attention.  Show an interest in them, their lives and their interests.  Let them teach you about the school.  If they're foul shut all this off.  This kind of set seems to really like smiley stamps/star stickers etc. in year 11. Dunno why.

    If you're established at the school obviously they way you interact with and teach them will build on the (hopefully positive) relationships you've established with hopefully at least some of them lower down the school.

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    Posted by: weebecka 16/12/2010 at 23:10
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    Enough for tonight.

    Anyone else. 

    How do we settle the students who don't improve after punishment?

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    Posted by: DM 16/12/2010 at 23:10
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    weebecka,

    You keep banging on about the time you led a mathematics departement in a school earmarked for closure for just over one year.   We previously established you had 60 something children in your Year 11.   Your school presumably then had between 300 - 350 students on roll at the end?   I expect you taught at least 150 of them so I am guessing your Department consisted of you and one other full time teacher or you and a couple of part-timers?   This is hardly a wealth of middle management experience in my book.

    DM

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    Posted by: DM 16/12/2010 at 23:11
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    That would be "department".

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    Posted by: Lilyofthefield 16/12/2010 at 23:12
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    Airy, you must be getting a serious case of deja vu by now.

    I too read "take child on to corridor for understanding chat with all the time in the world whilst the rest of the class may or may not get on with some work" and thought it best just to not even comment.

    Weebecka: hating the sin but loving the sinner, separating the child from the behaviour - it's all rubbish. Behaviour is the executive arm of the will.  The will is an extension of the personality.  You can't treat behaviour as some separate bolt-on accessory that the child isn't personally responsible for, that can be detached, polished and returned.

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    Posted by: Lilyofthefield 16/12/2010 at 23:13
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    weebecka:

    Enough for tonight.

    Anyone else. 

    How do we settle the students who don't improve after punishment?

    Didn't I ask you that three pages ago?  Take them onto the corridor for a chat is what you and the Mums decided on.

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    Posted by: DM 16/12/2010 at 23:20
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    Didn't the GTCE strike someone off a couple of months ago for leaving a class unsupervised (I recall he made inappropriate comments to a sixth former and some other stuff too)?

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    Posted by: weebecka 17/12/2010 at 00:08
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    Just checking in....

    DM my CV is there for anyone to see (unlike yours).

    I did nearly two years at Ehenside (I was invovled and sorting stuff out in the term before I started, actully I was in before the summer too).  I also had a diverse range of formal and informal responsbility in previous schools. My students have delivered very good results in very difficult circumstances.  There you go - that's my experience, no more no less.

    I'm claiming here that I've often had to leave my class to deal with other situations,

    because,

    I've often had to leave my class to deal with other situations.

     

    Clearly other people have different experiences to me so I don't want this to be a monalogue. 

    so 

    Lilyofthefield:
    How do we settle the students who don't improve after punishment?

    Many thanks to Lily for here repeated suggestions that we need to hit the students more severely and more often but that's a hard one for me to work from as it's not legal not likely to be and I want to talk about stuff which may be helpful to people.

    BTW if no-one's finding this thread useful I'm quite happy just to leave it.

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    Posted by: autismuk 17/12/2010 at 06:58
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    weebecka:
    What happened to my classes?  Some got on with work some didn't.  But the the behaviour was not extreme.  It was somehow more responsible than it had been before.  I'm finding this really hard to describe.  There was something about the way the dynamics change when the teacher is out the room that isn't what you expect.  I'm not saying they were angels at all, but I am saying benefits of working with students one-to-one in this way I've described were worth the costs.
     

    It perhaps hasn't occurred to you that your 'really challenging' class perhaps wasn't that really challenging, rather than some wondrous behavioural management and teaching on your part which works in some mythical way you don't understand.

    Really challenging classes are not borderline 'C' grades. Not saying it's impossible, just I've never seen one. This is because really challenging classes/children have been so since they were in reception class, so however bright they are their work throughput is less than stellar.

    Occam's Razor suggests it's you that's wrong, but that's a possibility you seem totally unable to cope with.

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    Posted by: autismuk 17/12/2010 at 07:02
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    weebecka:
    Don't believe all the stuff Autismuk writes about me passing classes like this on to SENCOS.  That's just him.  I said in some cases where it was best for the students I've put them with SENCOs.  It's NEVER been about dumping them on someone else and I've always taken the toughest classes myself.
     

    You're really desperate, aren't you ? 

    SMT etc. will always argue like this ; I'm not giving you the harder classes and me the brighter ones simply because it's easier for me, nooooo, it's for reason xxxxx.

    I'm amused for someone supposedly so good at communication that you continually misrepresent what I say.

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